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Male Sex Drive: 9 Myths Busted

Cock

Male sex drive is simple, right? A sexy thought. A hard-on. Action. Relief. Pause-two-three. Ready. Sexy thought. Hard-on…

Like a naked rifle squad, we think of guy sex drive as little more than a hard-on, a convenient target and the relief of a well-aimed load. Confusing everyone and their simplistic rhetoric is that damned [...]

Circles of Comfort

Circle of comfort

We pee in the woods, drink beer, swim naked and then later tell the absolute truth about ourselves. We can take the bags off our heads and show that we’re no different than the guy sitting in the same glow of a smokey camp fire. We wonder if any one else is getting sex, [...]

Who’s Teaching Sex, Now?

Sex Education

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How sex remains a mystery among all these voices — well, it still remains a mystery. I think we need to do a better job of choosing those who teach us sex. Not about sex — those who teach us sex

It hit me hard when I read [...]

The Secret Life of Sexual Fantasy

Sexual Fantasy

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Ask any guy, and he’ll undoubtedly deny it and maybe even hurt you. He often lives another tightly concealed life in a colorful erotic world. His world of sexual fantasy has no borders and no shores, needs no passport, no commitment and has no exit.

You [...]

Good Vibrations – Syncing With Sex

Sexual Sync

A good vibe is essential to a novel idea or an honest deal, but mostly it’s a path to an astounding orgasm. Women have traditionally claimed the corner on sexual okayness of vibrators as a part of their private pleasure. And rightly so because women have worked for this social dignity for decades and [...]

How To Launch A Sexual Resolution

Sexual Revolution

New Years resolutions are like promises to clean the garage or scrape the pigeon crap off the gutters. They’re great intentions with little hope of realization. Your sexual resolutions, though can become personal sexual revolutions if you keep your tactics simple.

Most of us need some reform in our sex lives–or maybe a major [...]

Not Just Another Cock & Ball Story

Can't Say Penis

What a guy calls his genitals in polite company is probably one of the most unnerving momentary decisions he’ll make. If he doesn’t call his organ “Marlon” or “Dick”, referring to his dangly bit as “penis” is more awkward than “I do”, than “No, officer, I don’t know how fast I was going”, or [...]

How To Talk About Sex

Talk About Sex

Ask a guy to talk about sex in a frank way, you’d think you were asking him for his right lung.

“When I started out in the classroom, I could not even say the word ‘nipple’,” she remembers. “I told myself, ‘This is silly – it is just a word’, but I still could [...]

A Student of Messy Sexuality

Messy Sexuality

To whom did someone give the task of tidying up sexuality? Schools tried it. Churches tried it. Legislators tried it. Zillions of authors tried it. Prudish mothers tried it.

It can’t be done.

Thank God.

I think I’ve finally concluded that sexuality is messy just like the rest of  life, love, God and friends.

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Consummating A Home

Orgasmic Guy at Home

With every new destination comes a decision to marry it or room with it. We moved to a new home and new neighborhood this past weekend. I decided to marry this one.

Seriously, it’s like that for me. The first days in our new home have been a honeymoon of making love, getting to [...]