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The Adult Sex Education Gap And How To Fill It
American adult sex education is un-education. What the hell do you need sex education for? Aren’t you just supposed to know this stuff? What indeed. Here’s how to fill the adult sex education gap.
Anti-Masturbation: Society Invades Solitude
Anti-masturbation campaigns are as common as nosey neighbors, yet as insidious as a cult. They beguile unwary wankers into believing solo genital pleasure is personally dangerous and socially damning.
Why The US Continues Male Circumcision
The holy and strange union of Americans and circumcision is at best an agreement of naive partners. The lingering question tormenting me is why the US continues male circumcision. They are so wrong for each other.
Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men
Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men by Ritch Savin-Williams is a welcome book to dislodge the rigid stereotypes of male sexual attraction.
Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Viewing Pleasure
Dr. David Ley’s “Ethical Porn for Dicks”, a review for guys. Guys who love porn and guys who struggle with their relationship with porn will want this.
No More Sex Shame: An Interview With Dan Savage
Dan Savage, the gay guy who gives No Shit sex advice to straight folk, America’s straight-up LGBT activist, discusses sex shame with Dr. David Ley.
Sexual Knowledge & Skill
Information, Pleasure, How-To, Masturbation & Orgasm
Three Keys To A Conscious Hand Job
The quest for the optimal hand job technique has challenged the most inquiring minds for as long as anyone can remember. You’ve found it. Read on!
D/s, The Heart of Kink
Kink isn’t deviant. Kink is more aligned with the heart and soul that any of us can imagine. Learn about D/s, domination and submission. Learn your kink.
How To Put On A Cock Ring
It helps to understand how to put on a cock ring if you can imagine what it might be like to rope a calf. It’s really not that big of a physical feat, but essentially speed and good technique ensure success every time.
Edging The Divide
Edging — that curious mix of sexual restraint and abandon — is a liminal place in male sexual experience. You’re not here and you’re not there.
Breath of Fresh Eros
Rarely have I thought about breath other than that time I was stuck in a Russian elevator. It's taken me years to understand how vital breath is to sex. <div class="ml-form-embed"<!--...
Coconut Oil – Ma Nature’s Best Sex Lube
Coconut oil is likely among the best sex lubes around. It has that perfect slick factor, lasts and lasts and is awesome for your skin.
Anti-Masturbation: Society Invades Solitude
Anti-masturbation campaigns are as common as nosey neighbors, yet as insidious as a cult. They beguile unwary wankers into believing solo genital pleasure is personally dangerous and socially damning.
Guided Masturbation for Your Brain: My Pleasure
Imagine the ultimate male masturbation device. Through guided masturbation and “My Pleasure” by SonoTouch. Your body and brain together climb into your own unique pleasure zone where you all at once go further than you’ve ever gone before.
Ballooning Intense Masturbation Technique — The Wow Factor
Once you experience it, you know why it's called ballooning. The ballooning intense masturbation technique is both thrilling and certainly beneficial for sexual health. I can't think of another...
Wax and Wane Intense Masturbation Technique — Advanced Sex Training
The wax and wane intense masturbation technique is likely the most liberating masturbation technique I know. You learn to trust your body and gain confidence in both erection and...
OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon
OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon: A world-wide synchrony of pleasure to achieve world-wide peace and unity. It certainly can’t hurt. Starts May 1st.
Still Don’t Know The Secret of Fleshlight? It’s In The Advanced Techniques
While most guys enjoy the pleasure of five-finger masturbation, there’s nothing quite like the joy of a Fleshlight. Learn the elusive secrets here.
Why Nakedness Is Good For You
Nakedness is the belief that clothing is indeed a mask. It’s in nakedness that we discover honesty with ourselves and others. It’s in nakedness that we feel the unfettered freedom to be and to express our essential selves.
Why Your Partner Freaks About Your Porn And How To Tell Them Why You Love It
You enjoy porn. Not everyone appreciates your love of porn. How to tell your partner why you love porn and actually see them understand it.
Why News Fasting Can Reset Your Sex Life
The drip feed of news can keep your erotic energy at a low level. Trying news fasting for only 30 days can revive your sex life. Try it.
Show Me The Numbers
If you're mentally gnawing the bedpost, rest easy; you're not alone. Guys routinely tally on self-imposed dungeon walls while silently longing for naked play with a long-term partner. If you're...
Dear Sean When I Was 15
At first blush this might sound like fatherly patter, but let's shake that notion straight away. You're me. You're me a generation ago. A Letter to My 15-Year-Old Self on Guy Sexuality Dear Sean,...
Happy New Year!
If you could step outside of yourself for a couple of weeks, what would you hear yourself saying? I did just that in December 2013 and heard some surprisingly pleasing things. To hear me talk about...
Male Sexual Health
Sexual Function, Risk, Aging & Mental Health
Sleep and Orgasm: Beauty From The Abyss
Sleep and orgasm are two parts of the same equation and a path to pleasure that both heals and renews. Here’s help if sleep and orgasm elude you.
Why The US Continues Male Circumcision
The holy and strange union of Americans and circumcision is at best an agreement of naive partners. The lingering question tormenting me is why the US continues male circumcision. They are so wrong for each other.
The Vasectomist: A Vasectomy Global Mission
The Vasectomist, a documentary of the work of Dr. Doug Stein a global mission to quell overpopulation and poverty when everyone has access to a vasectomy.
Dress For Sex—Wear A Condom
Condoms are the party favor of sexuality whether you’re playing with vaginal, anal or oral sex. Condoms are part of the fun.
7 Guy Sexual Health Tips For The New Year
Guy sexual health doesn’t always look like stuff about sexuality. This New Year look at guy sexual health examines things like sleep and friends and play.
Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS) – Twice Shy About Coming
Like fireworks without the bang, post orgasmic illness syndrome (POIS) leaves guys gun shy about ejaculating. Rare, but it packs a punch in your sex life. No one knows how common of a sexual malady POIS is.
Guided Masturbation for Your Brain: My Pleasure
Imagine the ultimate male masturbation device. Through guided masturbation and “My Pleasure” by SonoTouch. Your body and brain together climb into your own unique pleasure zone where you all at once go further than you’ve ever gone before.
Is Aneros About Anal Pleasure Or A Sexual Fitness Device?
Anal pleasure seems a bit out of reach for a lot of guys. Figure in anal stigma, no knowledge of anal play, and you're stuck. Till now. Now, there's Aneros. I would meet a friend at a cafe in...
Still Don’t Know The Secret of Fleshlight? It’s In The Advanced Techniques
While most guys enjoy the pleasure of five-finger masturbation, there’s nothing quite like the joy of a Fleshlight. Learn the elusive secrets here.
Anal Fun Was Never So Affordable
It must be a remarkable deal to get me to post a giant banner ad, but this morning at the coffee shop, I saw this deal and I had to share it with you.
How To Put On A Cock Ring
It helps to understand how to put on a cock ring if you can imagine what it might be like to rope a calf. It’s really not that big of a physical feat, but essentially speed and good technique ensure success every time.
Where is Your Aneros?
Aneros and anal sex play revolutionized the male sex toy world — literally by storm. Aneros isn’t simple masturbation. Aneros is personal sexual art.
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