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Why The US Continues Male Circumcision

The holy and strange union of Americans and circumcision is at best an agreement of naive partners. The lingering question tormenting me is why the US continues male circumcision. They are so wrong for each other.

Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men

Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity Among Men by Ritch Savin-Williams is a welcome book to dislodge the rigid stereotypes of male sexual attraction.

Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Viewing Pleasure

Dr. David Ley’s “Ethical Porn for Dicks”, a review for guys. Guys who love porn and guys who struggle with their relationship with porn will want this.

No More Sex Shame: An Interview With Dan Savage

Dan Savage, the gay guy who gives No Shit sex advice to straight folk, America’s straight-up LGBT activist, discusses sex shame with Dr. David Ley.

The Deep Yes: The Lost Art of True Receiving

The Deep Yes by Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo explores places many of us are afraid to go — deep in our bodies, sleep, nutrition and deeper still our sexuality.

I Marched for You

If there ever was a sweet spot in time, it’s now. When we defend the rights and agency of the most vulnerable people among us, we champion the rights of all.

Sexual Knowledge & Skill

Information, Pleasure, How-To, Masturbation & Orgasm

Three Keys To A Conscious Hand Job

The quest for the optimal hand job technique has challenged the most inquiring minds for as long as anyone can remember. You’ve found it. Read on!

D/s, The Heart of Kink

Kink isn’t deviant. Kink is more aligned with the heart and soul that any of us can imagine. Learn about D/s, domination and submission. Learn your kink.

How To Put On A Cock Ring

It helps to understand how to put on a cock ring if you can imagine what it might be like to rope a calf. It’s really not that big of a physical feat, but essentially speed and good technique ensure success every time.

Edging The Divide

Edging — that curious mix of sexual restraint and abandon — is a liminal place in male sexual experience. You’re not here and you’re not there.

Breath of Fresh Eros

Rarely have I thought about breath other than that time I was stuck in a Russian elevator. It's taken me years to understand how vital breath is to sex. Don't want to miss a post of Orgasmic Guy?...

Coconut Oil – Ma Nature’s Best Sex Lube

Coconut oil is likely among the best sex lubes around. It has that perfect slick factor, lasts and lasts and is awesome for your skin.

OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon

OG 2018 Masturbate-A-Thon: A world-wide synchrony of pleasure to achieve world-wide peace and unity. It certainly can’t hurt. Starts May 1st.

Still Don’t Know The Secret of Fleshlight? It’s In The Advanced Techniques

While most guys enjoy the pleasure of five-finger masturbation, there’s nothing quite like the joy of a Fleshlight. Learn the elusive secrets here.

23 Great Reasons Guys Masturbate

Search “reasons guys masturbate” and you’ll find a lot of health reasons. More than health, guys masturbate simply because it’s fun. Read on to find more.

Edging The Divide

Edging — that curious mix of sexual restraint and abandon — is a liminal place in male sexual experience. You’re not here and you’re not there.

13 Ways To Commemorate National Masturbation Month

May is National Masturbation Month. The commemoration is sure, about masturbating, but more than that, the month is a reminder that personal sexuality is basic to our more far-reaching sexual lives.

What is Masturbation?

Male masturbation, what guys do, is likely the first and last sexual act of a man. Fraught with moral controversy, guys need to square off with their own comfort with their body and sexuality. Masturbation inevitably is where that is going to happen.

Sexual Growth

Identity & Personal Development

Why Your Partner Freaks About Your Porn And How To Tell Them Why You Love It

You enjoy porn. Not everyone appreciates your love of porn. How to tell your partner why you love porn and actually see them understand it.

Why News Fasting Can Reset Your Sex Life

The drip feed of news can keep your erotic energy at a low level. Trying news fasting for only 30 days can revive your sex life. Try it.

Show Me The Numbers

If you're mentally gnawing the bedpost, rest easy; you're not alone. Guys routinely tally on self-imposed dungeon walls while silently longing for naked play with a long-term partner. Don't want to...

Dear Sean When I Was 15

At first blush this might sound like fatherly patter, but let's shake that notion straight away. You're me. You're me a generation ago. Don't want to miss a post of Orgasmic Guy? Easy. Subscribe to...

Happy New Year!

If you could step outside of yourself for a couple of weeks, what would you hear yourself saying? I did just that in December 2013 and heard some surprisingly pleasing things. To hear me talk about...

Sexless Nights, Sexless Days

Why don’t people have sex? A zillion reasons, but you want to know yours. If there’s anything that can make your heart ache, make you sob in your pillow and rehearse scenario after scenario of why and who’s fault, it’s too many nights and days gone sexless.

Male Sexual Health

Sexual Function, Risk, Aging & Mental Health

Why The US Continues Male Circumcision

The holy and strange union of Americans and circumcision is at best an agreement of naive partners. The lingering question tormenting me is why the US continues male circumcision. They are so wrong for each other.

The Vasectomist: A Vasectomy Global Mission

The Vasectomist, a documentary of the work of Dr. Doug Stein a global mission to quell overpopulation and poverty when everyone has access to a vasectomy.

Dress For Sex—Wear A Condom

Condoms are the party favor of sexuality whether you’re playing with vaginal, anal or oral sex. Condoms are part of the fun.

7 Guy Sexual Health Tips For The New Year

Guy sexual health doesn’t always look like stuff about sexuality. This New Year look at guy sexual health examines things like sleep and friends and play.

Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS) – Twice Shy About Coming

Like fireworks without the bang, post orgasmic illness syndrome (POIS) leaves guys gun shy about ejaculating. Rare, but it packs a punch in your sex life. No one knows how common of a sexual malady POIS is.

Genital Shaving? It Will Grow Back

Genital shaving, body grooming or manscaping, call it what you want. Private grooming is an overlooked detail in the personal and sexual lives of guys. Here’s someplace to start, a few tips to get you going on your way to a tidier private you.

Still Don’t Know The Secret of Fleshlight? It’s In The Advanced Techniques

While most guys enjoy the pleasure of five-finger masturbation, there’s nothing quite like the joy of a Fleshlight. Learn the elusive secrets here.

Anal Fun Was Never So Affordable

It must be a remarkable deal to get me to post a giant banner ad, but this morning at the coffee shop, I saw this deal and I had to share it with you.

How To Put On A Cock Ring

It helps to understand how to put on a cock ring if you can imagine what it might be like to rope a calf. It’s really not that big of a physical feat, but essentially speed and good technique ensure success every time.

Where is Your Aneros?

Aneros and anal sex play revolutionized the male sex toy world — literally by storm. Aneros isn’t simple masturbation. Aneros is personal sexual art.

Soul Rhythm

I love it when performing musicians want you to clap in rhythm with the music. I'm the guy that's clapping on the off beat or even worse not on any beat. I work at it for a few seconds and I finally...

A Guy and His Toys

Women have always had a glorious history of enjoying sex toys. I suspect women’s sex toy traditions go back centuries before plain paper packages. I think the joy a woman gets from her vibe or dildo is in many ways more fulfilling to her guy than it is even to her.

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