Even we sensitive, zen-feely dudes consider something as left-brained as frequency a sincere measure of the erotic quality of life.
It isn’t your responsibility to relieve people of their weird discomfort with sex as a subject of friendly small talk. Sex is a worthy subject in any kind of company.
When you talk about sex and church in the same sentence, for most folks, hairs go up on the back of their necks. Heck, it does for me, too. In our North American culture, sex and church go together like water and oil. Merlot and fish. Obama and Palin. S&M and Every Man’s Battle.