Show Me The Numbers

Show Me The Numbers

If you’re mentally gnawing the bedpost, rest easy; you’re not alone. Guys routinely tally on self-imposed dungeon walls while silently longing for naked play with a long-term partner. If you’re mentally gnawing the bedpost, rest easy; you’re...
Dear Sean When I Was 15

Dear Sean When I Was 15

At first blush this might sound like fatherly patter, but let’s shake that notion straight away. You’re me. You’re me a generation ago. A Letter to My 15-Year-Old Self on Guy Sexuality Dear Sean, At first blush this might sound like fatherly patter,...
Sex Talk In Church

Sex Talk In Church

When you talk about sex and church in the same sentence, for most folks, hairs go up on the back of their necks. In our North American culture, sex and church go together like water and oil. Merlot and fish. Obama and Palin. S&M and Every Man’s Battle. When...