Love Me Flaccid
What started as a joke between me and my friend — here’s to you flaccid guy! — became for me a really big question: Is a rock hard erect penis really better than a flaccid one? Put another way, does a guy really find his sexual identity in his erection or even more basic, in his physical sexual ability?
What it boils down to for me is a definition of the Orgasmic Guy. Is the Orgasmic Guy a guy who can raise an erection at will and keep it till he’s finished? Sounds pretty good, but really I’m wondering if what really defines an Orgasmic Guy, a fulfilled sexual male, is an attitude. I don’t think it’s what he can do, but who he is.
There’s nothing like a really hard erection — especially if it comes unexpected — wahoo! But you know I can love flaccid, too. Really.