Pick an Orgasm, Any Orgasm

by | Apr 13, 2010 | Sexual Knowledge & Skill

There are face cards and there are numbered cards. Some male orgasms, I’d say qualify as a face card. The colors and design really stand out and you tend to put those guy sexual sensations in a category of their own.

Male orgasm, as in cards, never lets you know what hand you’ll be dealt next. “It’s all in the cards,” as they say, “until you lay down.” You know what I’m talking about. You stop panting after an orgasm, catch your breath a little bit, and your lover says, “Wow! What was that all about?”

Pick a Male Orgasm”Geez, I don’t know.” You shake it off and try to remember before your orgasm. “It just came out of nowhere! The ends of my fingers are still tingling. It seemed like it would never end.” You shudder a little. “I’m still not sure it has, yet.”

There are face cards and there are numbered cards. Some male orgasms, I’d say qualify as a face card. The colors and design really stand out and you tend to put those guy sexual sensations in a category of their own.

As a writer, a student of male sexuality and an ordinary guy, I resist putting names and labels on something as dynamic, mysterious and fantastic as a guy’s orgasm. But let’s face it, our orgasms come in a variety pack and we can learn a lot about ourselves, our love making and our sexual growth if we just give a tad bit more attention to male sexual experience rather than “just getting one off.”

The Male Full Body Orgasm

This is the big kahuna of guy orgasm. The male full body orgasm is most likely the model the dude above experienced. This is the kind you fall into rather than pump up to. She’s probably already come and you are enjoying the long ride of kissing, caressing and deep, slow thrusting that lasts long. You’re very relaxed, but incredibly aroused and surprisingly able to delay ejaculation. This is because you held back at the beginning of intercourse and your stimulation and focus wasn’t only on your penis. It was spread out. Now, it seems you can make love forever. And, you probably can.

This orgasm has an epicenter not necessary in your groin. It could be anywhere — your belly, your butt, your thighs. You won’t know till it comes. When the full body orgasm comes, it doesn’t seem to start with ejaculation, but a deep inner moan that increases in amplitude, and rolls like an earthquake reaching out to your extremities. It can begin to subside a bit, but don’t stop because there’s always more with this kind.

Male G-Spot Orgasm

The male G-spot orgasm is sometimes referred to as a prostate orgasm because your male G-spot is found in your prostate gland. If you slip a lubed finger into your rectum. You can feel the prostate as well as it’s wowing sensation. It’s just an inch or two in toward your front. Lots of guys use anal toys both in lovemaking and male masturbation to experience a male G-spot orgasm.

A male G-spot orgasm is spicy but deep like a rich red wine. For women, sexual experience is mostly inside, and we think of guy sex experience as only outside. With a G-spot orgasm, you experience that inside sensation that’s not entirely gained through penis stimulation. A nice benny to the G-spot orgasm is that they can easily be multiples which come and go like waves on a seashore.

Ejaculatory Orgasm

An ejaculatory orgasm is reliable. Men can summon up an ejaculatory orgasm from a few seconds to a matter of a few minutes. It’s the kind of orgasm that emanates either only from your penis or at most from your groin and not much beyond. Most of the pleasure you enjoy from an ejaculatory orgasm is from the gushing sensation you feel from the semen expelling from your penis. And the more the better.

Non-Ejaculatory Orgasm

Why would I not want to ejaculate? Because a non-ejaculatory orgasm allows you the privilege to orgasm, make love, masturbate or whatever else you like to do for as long as you want. Most guys experience a time period after ejaculation during which they really don’t feel much like sex. If you delay your ejaculation till later or till tomorrow, you enjoy non-ejaculatory orgasm.

The longer you make love, spread your focus, and relax your muscles, your orgasmic response will build. First you feel the fluttering in your belly or groin as you dangle on the edge of ejaculation, but you ease off and delay it, the sensations come more frequently and with greater intensity till you can say these are definitely orgasms — less intense, but orgasms. You play on the edge like a hawk on the wind till you decide you’ve had enough.

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Contemplative Orgasm

You find yourself lost in orgasm in a place much bigger than you are. Contemplative orgasm is spiritual. You can’t define it so much by how it feels as you define it by where your focus is in the experience. If your focus is on something larger than a physical experience, and your desire to connect with someone outside of yourself, you’re edging into contemplative orgasm territory. Sadly, many of us bluntly divide our spiritual lives from sexual lives, but when you allow God to be present in your sexuality, you know that orgasm is undoubtedly spiritual.

Male Multiple Orgasm

Male multiple orgasms present themselves in almost all of the above experiences except possibly the ejaculatory orgasm. It’s like going to the dance. If you’re going to dance all the dances, then you’ll want to stay all night. Multiple orgasm isn’t likely to happen for you if you quit too soon. You’ve got to give it time, focus and allow yourself to fall into it. Like the dance, each one gets more fun.

4 Comments

  1. Warren G Wonka

    I learned this technique many years ago from a sensuality class: when you are hitting inevitability for an ejaculation, push out as though you are pushing the contents of your abdomen into your scrotum. You may lose a few orgasms that way as you rewire, but for me, it started giving me full-body orgasms that seemed as though my consciousness blew out through my skull, splattered against the ceiling, dripped down the walls, and slowly flowed back to me.

    I taught it to a lover, and she started having two-minute orgasms that almost bucked me off the bed.

  2. Carlos

    Sean, I must definitely say that orgasmicguy.com is an excellent website! I’ve tried the technique of palming my dick head even before I eead it here. It is definitely one of tge best ones.

    I think that I can say I have mastered the art of real masturbation up to some extent -I am just 14 and two months from becoming 15. I know how to do the edging technique and I must say I always use it in my jack-off sessions.

    Another thing I must say is that there IS a really big difference between an orgasm and a mind-blowing orgasm, those that are so strong that your entire body shakes like if an earthquake was occurring (and I’m only 14). I have had those orgasms in which you feel the best of you; it is a feeling that spreads throughout my body and that really leaves you gasping for air, panting as you try to recover from the ecstasy of a real full-body orgasm. And I am sure that I can have / will have even better ones!

    Keep up this website; many guys -such as me- love it.

  3. Sean

    Hey Brock,
    Not exactly sure what you mean by doing it for you. My imagination paints a picture of someone manipulating the Helix to stimulate your prostate. Indeed that’s a blast, but not really what you’re after.

    I have a Helix and love it. It has that little bump on the front that hits my prostate just right. It sounds like you’re getting frustrated and frustration and sex just don’t mix. Don’t go there. Try approaching your prostate more like a bonsai artist than a dragon slayer. It’s a very sexual part of you and our only challenge is that it’s hard to reach, so we use something like the Aneros. The Aneros’ only job is to touch you. The rest is up to you.

    If you’re cumming, you’re going too far. You need to slow way down. Allow yourself plenty of time, quiet and focus. Stroke your cock if you like, but that’s not the main event. The main event is in your rectum and you need to focus there. Use your anal muscles, your PC muscles to move the Aneros and massage your prostate. Again, you’re not striving to cum. That’s not the event. You could help the Aneros a little bit by moving gently with your hand. Try different postures as well. Some guys like laying on their side or on their back. Try standing and bending over the edge of a bed using some pillows.

    Enjoy the subtle sensations, stroke your cock when you’re very aroused, jiggle the Aneros a little, move around, the sensations will surprise you. You won’t expect it.

  4. Brock

    After hearing how a guy can have super intense long lasting prostate orgasms I bought a Helix and began massaging my prostate. But to this date I have not had any of these wonderful orgasms. I even tried masturbating while I had the Helix in. But I did not have a prostate orgasm. I just had,of course, the short lasting orgasm you have when you shoot your wad. I do have a good pleasant feeling on my prostate after I use the Helix, but that is about it. Now here is my question. Am I more likely to have a prostate orgasm if I have someone do it for me? The reason I ask is this. If I am able to have an orgasm with a person doing it for me then that will encourage me to keep trying with the Helix. Who knows maybe the Helix is not the right one for me. Or maybe my prostate will only have orgasms if it is done by a person. Who knows, I sure don’t know. But if these men who post about having really intense long lasting prostate orgasms is “true” then I would like to join the crowd on this one. So what can you tell me. Brock.

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