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Most Intense Male Masturbation Technique #1 — Palming the Glans

This is a start-stop technique that you can make go on for as long as you can stand it. Some are able to do this for hours going through waves and waves of orgasmic pleasure with no ejaculation so it can last for literally hours if you have the time.

Palming the Glans

Get a good hard erection with plenty of lube and stroke your penis in any way you wish, but stay away from the edge before ejaculation. Just get aroused and very hard — no more. When you’ve settled in, have control of your arousal and can stroke easily without coming close to the edge of ejaculation, concentrate on your muscles around your anus and the base of your penis and one-by-one relax them. Consciously let them go. Sometimes you have to squeeze them to identify them and then relax them. The important thing is to relax each and every muscle.

Now, lay back with your head on a pillow, slightly pull your knees up and spread your legs. Hold your erect penis shaft lightly with one hand and cup your other hand over the head of your penis, rotating your hand around so that the palm of your hand only contacts the head or glans of your penis. Don’t stroke any other part of your penis — only the glans with your palm.

You will feel a very intense sensation and the temptation will be to grab your penis and pump. Resist the temptation and relax those muscles. As long as you stroke this way, you are not likely to ejaculate. If anything, you might urinate without realizing it so keep some tissues or a towel handy. If you feel you’re coming really close to ejaculation, back off a bit on the stimulation and let the urge to ejaculate pass. Then continue.

The head or glans of your penis shrinks a bit when you stroke this way. After a couple minutes, the really intense sensation subsides and then it moves into other parts of your body. Keep going. Keep stroking and imagine the energy moving from your penis up into your stomach and into your shoulders and arms and head. Then down into your legs. Keep stroking. Relax those muscles. If you get close to ejaculation, slow or stop, get control and then start again. Only the head. Only the palm of your hand.

Your first time, you’ll probably only be able to do it for fifteen or twenty minutes. Later, you’ll be able to do it for an hour or even two. The orgasmic energy will move through your body and you’ll discover a sense of being you never knew was possible. You’ll feel light, healthy and free of stress.

You can end with ejaculation if you want, but you don’t have to. A lot depends on your age, recovery time after ejaculation and mostly on your state of mind. You might find that you feel full of energy and life if you don’t ejaculate. It’s up to you. Experiment and enjoy!

31 comments to Most Intense Male Masturbation Technique #1 — Palming the Glans

  • Steve

    because I have no prostate now and can’t get an erection without using Trimix injection, can I still use these techniques while using Trimix for my erection?

  • Sean

    Definitely try them using the injection, but as part of your recovery, try other routes to sexual growth as well. An erection isn’t the beginning or end of any sexual act. Modify any masturbation technique to suit yourself with a flaccid penis. You might enjoy the results, and you might learn something about your own sexuality. Then let us know so we can learn as well.

  • Steve

    Sean ~ Thanks…i meant to include the flaccid penis, because i don’t inject too often..maybe once a week or so. FYI, i’m also using the aneros progasm but haven’t achieved an anal orgasm with it yet. Is there anything special a guy with no prostate can do besides what’s been recommended here? I have tried tickling the frenulum and that feels terrific. Thanks for any other tips you might offer

    Steve

  • Sean

    Even though the Aneros is intended to stimulate the prostate, I’m hearing a lot of guys telling about some pretty remarkable experience with it. There’s a whole lot more anal sexual potential than just prostate. Set aside the traditional “guy and his penis” sexuality for a bit. There are some valuable lessons we can learn from Tantra — slow down, take time and discover other sexual objectives beside orgasm.

  • Brock

    This is my favorite way to masturbate. It is just as you say. It is a truly intense. The only problem I have is that when I finally reach the point to ejaculate I can not keep up the rotating on the head. Because the sensation of the ejaculating sperm is so intense that I simply stop because it is just too intense. I am not happy about that part. But that is alright I’ll still like doing it. Ever guy should do it at least from time to time. Brock.

  • Bob

    I don’t have lube, what normal home things can I use for this technique?

  • Sean

    Stuff around the house? Watch what you use for sex lubes. Stay safe. Aloe Vera gel is nice — you have to add a little water now and then. Olive oil works well — is eventually absorbed. Best is coconut oil — lasts and lasts, has the perfect slick factor, and is good for your skin.

  • Brock

    I posted back on September 25, 2011 at 12:01 pm. I still have the same problem as I mentioned in that post. So now I would like to ask a really big and bold question. I am married and have a great relationship with my wife in every way which includes our love life. But she does not like or enjoy masturbating. I enjoy sex with my wife but I also enjoy masturbating. I just see it as a guy thing. So what about two guys getting together from time to time and all they do is masturbate each other? I ask this because at this point I see it as the only way for me to fully enjoying palming. I have not done this with another guy, but have thought about it. Don’t know who I would it with anyway. Is this going too far? Some for sure would say it is a gay thing. I am not sure if it would be if that is about all that is done. If this post is going too far, please over look it and send it to the trash bind. Brock.

  • Sean

    Hey Brock. Thanks for the note. You raise a lot of interesting things, so I’ll just touch on them. You asked about masturbating with other guys and if it was a gay thing. First, masturbating is one of many ways of sexual expression — guy, gal, gay, straight, bi or any other gender or orientation. It really makes no difference. People sexually pleasure themselves. But I think you meant more than that — sexually pleasuring one another. To me, that’s not masturbation any more because it’s with another person, but no matter. Sexual expression between guys doesn’t make them gay either. Some straight guys do sexual stuff together. This is where the “quacks like a duck” test doesn’t really work. What you do, doesn’t necessarily indicate sexual orientation.

    But I didn’t get the impression you were all that concerned about orientation. You mentioned some other things that likely influence how you think about this as well. I’m sure palming is not the end of your sexuality, though you enjoy it, and as you consider adding a person to your genital sex life, you know that there are many people affected by your sexuality — your spouse, your friends and maybe others. You’ll make your choices respecting the feelings of those others and the trust you share with them.

    Finally, know that sexuality is a cultivated thing. Maybe your wife doesn’t like to masturbate with you now. Perhaps if you introduce it a little at a time and give serious understanding to what her sexual desires are, masturbation might become something enjoyable for her as well. It’s well worth learning to ask what your lover wants and be ready to give as well as say what you want.

  • Seth

    Hey Sean:

    Yeah, just wondering. Does water work as lube? Im very young (12, to be exact), and trying to ~explore~my body in different ways. I don’t know if I can orgasm yet, and I want to try, but im not keen on waiting more than 8 minutes. Any suggestions?

  • Sean

    Hey Seth,
    Usually water is not the greatest lube, but it depends on if you’re circumcised or not. Circumcised guys often need no lube and frankly, a lot of guys just don’t use lube at all. My top lube pick is coconut oil — it’s used in cooking and a not of natural soaps are made from it. Just be safe and don’t use anything not intended for your skin or body. That’s delicate skin. Avoid soaps and things that dry. Try aloe vera gel if you have some.

    Sure, some guys are ready to orgasm at 12 — some younger, some older. Just go easy on yourself, be gentle and know that while orgasm is a nice feeling, there’s a lot of guy pleasure just in exploring your body as you say. Time will bring your first orgasm,

    I also want to recommend a really nice website about sexuality for teen guys: http://boysunderattack.com/index.html

  • Robert

    I just wanted to let you know about some techniques you can use in conjunction with these if you were looking to reach full ejaculation. Take your left hand, jack of backwards with the front of your hand facing you, and hold your breath when you cum. This works
    REALLY well. Tell me what you think.

  • Sean

    Hey Robert! Thanks for your note. Yes, variations are unlimited… and full of surprises. Thanks!

  • James

    First off id like to ask a question about something partially off subject, but related. I was an early masturbater. I started masturbating at the age of about 9. My question is, i was able to orgasm at the age of 10! Is that normal?
    Now for my next question. Espicially when using this technique, i orgasm about five to seven minutes into masturbating. And this is annoying because i get a ton of pleasure out of masturbating, but feel like im missing out on more pleasure becauuse i orgasm so fast. Please respond, James.

  • Sean

    Hello James. Thanks for your comment! First, question, yes, orgasm at ten is normal. It’s young but very normal.
    Second question is also normal. Yet, my experience is that this technique doesn’t bring me to orgasm very quick. Super intense sensations, but the orgasm delays. I’d suggest that you use edging techniques, discover your point of no return and back off your stimulation to that point. Seriously, you can hang on that edge and enjoy solo sex for as long as you want. You may find at first that you need to vary your technique a little bit, but you can stretch 5-7 minutes to 30 and then an hour. Check out this link: http://www.orgasmicguy.com/do-you-know-your-point-of-no-return/ Peace!

  • kamadev

    One can lie on the stomach, with the flacid penis turned upward i:e: the tip of the penis towards the navel, and slowly rub it on a semi-hard bed (not soft cushion) lightly, and thereby one can arrive climax with profuse ejaculation.And one can while ejaculating press the penis on the bed to get the feeling of ejaculating inside a tight vagina.With practice one finds this to be the most satisfactory masturbation technique.

  • ash

    I was having orgasms when I was 6 so 10.is not to young

  • Alain

    Hello, I just tried this technique. I was great, very intense sensation that i couldn’t stop rubbing my penis. I usually ejaculate very fast. Premature ejaculation, but with this technique, I could hold it. I did ejaculate. I saved it for another session. I have read that holding the ejacualtion build a lot of energy, and make the next seccion more fun.

  • Joe

    Hey all,

    I just want to give my account of this technique. I’m not sure if all men will have experienced what I did, but this was the most intense orgasm I’ve ever felt. I’m 22 and I didn’t know a man could feel what I did.

    I began jacking off as the article instructs and got good and aroused. I layed naked on my bed and held my penis with my left and began massaging the head with my right. It felt good. I began flexing the muscles and made a concious effort to relax them, all the while massaging the head of my penis. I was using aloe vera for a lubricant which worked quite well. I squirted some on my chest so I could relube without much of a lapse in massaging. At this point I couldn’t have been more than 3 or 4 minutes in. I remembered from the article to imagine the energy spreading into the rest of my body. And that it did. By about 6 or 7 minutes I was writhing in pleasure I had no idea I could feel. I was actually moaning. Haha! I could only stand it for about another two minutes at which point I stopped. I didn’t need to ejaculate. I actually felt a bit sick to my stomach from the intensity of the energy. Don’t let that deter you. It was remarkable. My body was numb and tingly all over, my heart pounding. I’m going to do it again in a bit here. I’ve always been intrigiued by the female orgasm due to the hype of it being more intense and pleasureable. Well this has to be the closest thing to it a man can feel. Unbelieveable. Thanks guys!

  • Nick

    So do I need lube for the palm rubbing hand?

  • Sean

    Hey Nick,

    Sure. Lube helps. Most of the time, it serves you best to use lube.

  • Please don’t judge until you read. A veternarian student then a nursing student back in 1988 told me about male multiple orgasms without ejaculation. Both of them told me they could make me orgasm without hardly touching my penis, but they needed to insert a finger(s) into my anus. WHAT? OK yea they were right women know more about male orgasm possibilties than men do. How does that work?

    She had me get on all fours then gently keep inserting her fingers and drawing the alphabet on my prostate gland until i was so exicited i was thrusting AIR. from there she told me i was leaking precum and purred for more. then she pulled my penis backwards careful not to jack it. She just held it back with her hand and used her thumb to milk semen out of my penis. then stopped and continued with prostate stimulation. I had what felt like a small orgasm and she cried look at all the precum never touching my penis. bThen she added another finger and told me to tuck my penis and testicles between my legs and thrust while she kept fingering my anus. WOW I came three more times without ejaculation but i guess she told me streams of precum semen. every time i had a small orgasm a good amount of precum followed or so i was told. She found it fasinating i almost passed out while she giggled. wish i could do that again. i was 39 years old at the time and in decent health.

    i really now belive that males are capable of multiple orgasms since i have had them since. They are smaller and less intense but does not tax the male body as much as a full blown ejaculation. My question is why did young women know exactlty how and what when i was fairly savy on my own anatomy, in 1988 know more than i?

  • Hi! This is my 1st comment here so I just
    wanted to give a quick shout out and tell you I truly enjoy reading through your articles.
    Can you recommend any other blogs/websites/forums that deal with the same subjects?
    Thank you so much!

  • Ray Gordon

    Start-stop technique is great and taught me to last longer and longer. Now I have reached the point that I no longer need to ever stop, I just slow down and do not touch the glans until the immediate urge to ejaculate stops. I can continue this now for as long as I desire. Then each time I start a new session it begins at the same intensity as when I previously stopped. Edging is the most rewarding technique and I will never again masturbate to full ejaculation repeatedly. I sometimes do have minor spurts or unexpected accidents but they are few and far between. Thanks for starting me with the Start-Stop technique. This advice from you has proven to be very excellent.

  • Edwin

    I’m 17 and i tried this awesome technique last night and almost screamed in pleasure.It is the best.

  • John

    I love this technique! One of the best feelings ever.
    Question – I heard that continuous rubbing of the cockhead will desensitize it in the future, making it harder to reach orgasm, is this true? I really doubt it, but I wanted an expert’s opinion. Thanks.

  • Sean

    Hey John! Sure, any part of the body which receives a lot of stimulation over time will lose some sensitivity. However, it returns when the stimulation of those nerves is reduced.

  • First learned about palming was the cupped hand of my friend and masterbating partner Glenn. Gee he was good. Wish we could get together again real soon.

  • Giancarlo

    Something tells me that this method shows more of what cut dudes feel, especially if the frenum has been cut off and there’s not much of the inner foreskin left behind the head and they have a really tight cut with no movable skin on the shaft. If you’ve watched videos you’ll probly see that some dudes have as much as two or three inches of the former inner foreskin left behind the head, and some guys only have about a half inch or less behind the head and can’t get any stim from the skin because those nerves are totally gone along with the frenum.
    For me, this method took a LOT of will power to not just start stroking the skin up and down the head. I couldn’t believe the feeling. It seemed like my dick head was in another room. LOL. But when it finally happened, and it took me a whole lot longer to cum this way, the head was flared and more reddish purple and shiny than usual. For dudes that still have their sex skin you really have to use will power to keep the skin held back firmly and to NOT let your palm go any further down the head than the flare and keep that palm off of the frenum and don’t concentrate too much around your piss hole unless your frenum ends before it gets there because the g-string will be stimulated too, and that’s cheating. Haha.
    I tried this a long time ago when a friend of mine had gotten cut and I asked him what it felt like and he told me what to do with just the palm rub on the head.

  • James

    Are there any videos that demonstrate the technique as I’m struggling to make it work. Please respond

  • Sean

    More than trying to get it right, get it yours. Get the concept of the technique in your head, then stop focusing on the technique and focus on you. Probably better advice than a video.

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