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Most Intense Male Masturbation Technique #3 — Tickling the Frenulum

For this intense male masturbation technique, you need plenty of time. It can take a half-hour or more. Get undressed and really comfortable. For this technique we use no lube at all. Just one or two fingers. Lay back, close your eyes and relax everything including your anal, kegel and muscles at the base of your penis. Allow yourself to become erect.

Tickling the Frenulum

Once you have a good strong erection, you’ll begin the technique and not stop for anything. Hold your erect penis lightly between a couple fingers of one hand. With the other hand, use one or two fingers to simply move around your frenulum — the V-spot on the bottom side of your penis toward the head if you’re circumcised. If you’re not, you’ll do the same thing but through the foreskin. Don’t rub, just hold your finger on the spot and move it around and around and around.

You won’t notice much at first. Be patient and keep it going. Stay relaxed. Relax your muscles around your penis and don’t squeeze. Eventually, you’ll start to notice some pretty strong urges, the main one being to just grab your penis and pump. Resist. Keep moving your finger around. Stay relaxed, and don’t squeeze those muscles.

Soon, you’ll feel an ejaculation coming on. It will ebb and flow for awhile and you’ll wonder if it ever will come and you’ll want to just grab hold and let it rip. Don’t. Keep moving your finger around and wait for what happens next.

Once you’ve felt the ebb and flow a few frustrating times, you’ll then feel the rush of semen flowing through every tube, pipe and hose in your abdomen and groin. Don’t squeeze, don’t stop or let up on the movement of your finger. Keep going. Your ejaculate won’t squirt like it usually does when you come, it will gush like a water fall. That’s right, you will gush massive amounts of semen and feel every drop of it coursing through your groin, and penis.

Don’t stop moving that finger even though you’re gushing semen. You’ll go absolutely nuts, but keep going until your body and penis goes totally limp. Then fall asleep. You’ll need it.

91 comments to Most Intense Male Masturbation Technique #3 — Tickling the Frenulum

  • Roger

    Do you pull foreskin back if uncut?

  • Sean

    I’m circumcised myself, but if it were me, I’d try with the foreskin. I think you likely have a lot of sensation to enjoy. Then compare to retracting your foreskin. Notice the difference. Nice that you have the option.

  • anonymouse

    Did it. Took me several weeks to get there and all day today… working at it. Won’t be doing it very often because of this but the orgasm was pretty amazing. The one I did last week was similar but that one I just jacked like normal then when I reached the PONR I just did the tickle thing. I’ll be doing that one way more!

  • janci

    I did this first time masturbating to orgasm when I was 15 and have done this for 45 years. Usually relaxed but sometimes I tighten my legs and whole body when I begin ejaculating. I do tender circling motions with one lubricated finger on frenulum or rub it between two fingers, I also use sometimes vibrator on frenulum or ask my wife caress gently this point. I usually caress my left nipple (it’s sensitive for me and sends pleasure waves right to frenulum area) the same time. I make pauses edging, when I want to last longer. Sometimes I have full body aftershocks. The frenulum is like woman’s clitoris, I have eplained to my wife.

  • Hugh Jaynus

    Took me roughly 20 minutes to hit the top of the montain. The orgasm lasted almost a minute. Had my mother in law helping me and she was just awestruck at the volume of semen. I plan on doing it again real soon. My mother in law is looking forward to helping out.

  • Barry

    I’ve been trying this technique for about a year, and I just can’t get it right. I can cum from rubbing the area next to the frenulum on my left side, slightly touching the corona. I do cum loads when I orgasm, and it feels great, but nothing like what’s described here.

    When I rub my frenulum at the tip (just where it meets the head) I don’t really feel anything. At the bottom of the frenulum (where it touches the shaft) I feel something, but my cock goes limp and then doesn’t get hard again.

    Where are you supposed to be rubbing the frenulum? In the middle, moving the whole thing around, or at the top or bottom of it?

    How hard are you meant to be rubbing the area?
    And how soft and for how long does your cock go limp inbetween the hard periods. Because with me it just goes limp and stays there.

    I’ve tried this method so many times and I don’t know what it is that i’m doing wrong. I was wondering if it was because I have slight frenulum breve that I couldn’t quite get to the nerves or something.

    Someone help please!!! I need VERY in detail instructions to get this right :S

  • Dan

    I tried this and it took more than an hour to orgasm.
    The orgasm was quite intense and I shot a big load, but it didn’t lost no where near as long…
    I know I am doing something wrong…
    What part of the penis needs to be stimulated exactly?
    How do I know I am on the right road when I try it?
    Is it ok to lift the fingers off the frenulum for a little bit and switch hands?

  • Sean

    Hey! No surprise on the hour. Kudos to you for staying with it! Nice. And you can’t really get sex wrong. Every experience had its own qualities to be enjoyed. Having said that, sure switch hands! You need to be comfortable. What’s great is noticing the true distinction between orgasm and ejaculation. When you come, continue to move the same bit of skin long after ejaculation for some nice intense pleasure. Keep at it! Thanks for your note!

  • paul

    I tried this technique yesterday. Session lasted a little over half an hour and proceeded as described. Wow!!! What a fantastic build up and release. Amazing how this produces such a long and literally draining orgasm. I did need to rest afterward.

    Thank you Sean, for sharing this.

  • Dan


    I’ve had 3 Frenulum orgasms and they rock.

    Have you made an article about having an anal orgasm?
    I’ve heard that’s a lot more intense than a Penis orgasm, but never really have achieved it… I tried doing it once but was lost…

  • Sean

    Hi Dan! Glad you enjoyed it. That’s what it’s about. Anal aren’t necessarily more intense but maybe broader in the sense of whole body. You can do that with your penis too, though if you take the time. Here’s an article about orgasm with the Aneros: http://www.orgasmicguy.com/where-is-your-aneros/ Enjoy, Dan!

  • Mike

    I tried this method and it truly is amazing. Thank you Sean this is the best thing ever. I have such a difficult time not just stroking it it’s so difficult to control because I am on the edge for so long. but when I finally do it’s like literally the awesome goo just shoots out as I try to still not stroke and then I find myself just gasping

  • Stephen


    I was wondering would you encourage listening to relaxing music or is it best to not?

  • Sean

    Everyone’s experience is different when comes to music. In my experience, any kind of music that is agitating isn’t great for sex. Feel-good music works for me. Also, I love Tibetan music. It appeals to my sexuality.

  • Dude

    I just tried this, but I came after only a couple of minutes, perhaps just a little longer than when masturbation the regular way. I didn’t change the speed of my finger or anything, and squirted like normal (although not as far).
    Anything I’m doing wrong?

  • asdfghjk

    Please explain in detail for uncut guys.
    How to find the spot and how to do it correct

  • Sean

    Hey! The technique is really the same whether you have a foreskin or not. The nerves on the frenulum are all in the same place. Find the”v” formed by your glans on the down-side of your penis. Gently move that around either with your foreskin retracted or in place. It works either way. Guys with foreskins usually have a bit more sensation do it’s likely to be even more awesome!

  • Johnny

    I read this technique and was super excited to try it.But I could not do it at all.I am uncut, so when I tried to do with my foreskin in place I could not orgasm even after 2 hours. So the next day I retracted my foreskin but again even after 1 hour I could not reach orgasm and also skin on the spot(where I had my finger) started to peel off. So I could not continue further as it hurt a lot. Maybe I am not doing it right. Or maybe I am keeping the finger at the wrong spot. Please help….I really want to orgasm using this wonderful technique.

  • Sean

    Hey Johnny!

    First, no masturbation technique should hurt. Always stop before it hurts. Stop and reevaluate. Maybe give it a break and try it later. A big part of this technique is relaxation. It’s important to relax all the muscles in the pelvic area. Probably not been noted before but here it’s worth it to say to relax the mind and don’t focus on the technique so much as enjoy the sensations. If pain develops, it’s time to give it a break.

  • Carlos

    I tried this technique yesterday at night when I went to bed and it wasna very remarkable experience.

    I started by masturbating as I often do, with my eyes closed and trying to feel everything as I stroke my penis with my whole hand, with the tip of my fingers, with a reverse fist or whatever grip I quite unconsciously use. I simply try to let everything just flow. Then, I grabbed my penis at the base and started to rub the frenulum with little circles. As the waves of pleasure got really bigger, the little circles became larger ones. As Sean described it, I could feel like if I was going to literally explode but then the semen held back. I continued to rub my frenulum for about 15 minutes. I’m going to tell the truth. Even though the orgasm with this technique was nit really amazing, the waves of pleasure that ran over my body as I tickled my frenulum were absolutely mind-blowing. I do not often moan when I jerk off, but with every pleasure wave an involuntary moan came out of my deep insides. Oh, and the amount of semen that came out was over my average.

    Thank you Sean for this outstanding technique.

  • Matheus

    Hi Sean. I’ve tried 3 times this technique but haven’t succeeded yet. Everytime I feel the orgasm is close, my penis gets really hard, I can feel I’m getting closer and closer to the orgasm, the pressure inside me (in the prostate, I believe) increases and then… My penis goes limp without orgasming a few secons later, and doesn’t get up right away.
    This happened in those 3 times, have you (or anyone) experienced it? The waves of pleasure I get until this point are really good, but the blue balls are taking their toll on me.

  • Sean

    Hi Mattheus! I don’t know if this bit of info would help you or not, but it’s worth noting that with this technique you don’t need to have a hard penis to ejaculate. If your erection takes a break, keep going. That advice can also apply to other sexual spheres of play. Hard cocks are occasionally overrated. Easy does it and have fun!

  • Tj

    I did this for about half an hour or so and it began gushing in waves followed by a pee like sensation then orgasm

  • Liz

    Oh wow! This sounds awesome! But I really want to try doing this with oral, I think that would excite him even more. Would a tongue work instead of a finger? How hard do you need to rub?

  • Sean

    Absolutely! Try the very tip of your tongue and fairly light. It’s a subtle stimulation. Be aware though that it can take awhile. Be patient. Change it up for awhile if it gets uncomfortable and then go back to the tongue. Sounds fun Liz.

  • luka

    Lol I discovered this way of masturbation by mistake in my early teens, its been my favorite ever since. At the very beginning it was very pleasurable, but abit to work for. But it is true, that not only with ‘practice’, but with experience it gets so much better. Nowadays, I like to mix it up with fist pumping, frenulum, intense kliegels, and edging. It’s way much better edging it while watching a good porno. The orgasms are so strong, if it doesn’t knock you out completely, you tingle and sputter after the waves hit you, and go completely numb for a few minutes. It’s great.

  • Noah

    Hey I dunno if this effects it but if I had porn on while doing this would it still work?

  • Sean

    Totally a matter of preference, but I find it distracting. The less distraction, the better focus on sensation and experience.

  • Dan

    I’m uncut and have done this a stack of times. My fav way to get off, when I have the time. My missus also loves to help out and after playing a while I’ll get on my knees and she’ll lick the frenulum while i gently rub it across her tongue. Same amazing feeling, just better cause it’s always better when you have some help.

  • mahatmaman

    I’ve done this a few times in the past couple of weeks; it’s an amazing departure from years of pump-and-stroke masturbation. I highly recommend it. The most notable differences to normal solo action was that I didn’t use much fantasy to get there. No thinking about female colleagues, women I’ve been with or would like to have sex with. Just the physical sensations. Even so the orgasm is intense. The other differences are in what you feel. Every stage of excitement is clearly discernible, presumably because they’re not masked by the movement and sensation of your hand or masturbation sleeve. Coming this way is beyond description and perhaps the most comparable experience is waking up coming after a wet dream. The other thing you feel with the hand you use to hold the base of the penis is each and every twitch of the penis as you pump out your load. Definitely worth trying. I never new I’d discover something new about masturbation at my age. I think Women who like giving head and handjobs should take note.

  • John

    Hey Guys,

    I dont understand, how do I go around without rubbing? and Do I hold the base of my penis with my left and only use 1 finger to rub the frenulum? Can I place my thumb on the head of my penis at the same time?

  • Sean

    Hey John! The main thing is that you stimulate only the frenulum. Use one or two fingers but just gently move the skin around rather than rubbing. It’s not much like the masturbation we all know. It’s very subtle. Be very patient and enjoy whatever happens!

  • Guest

    It worked. Very intense. Knocked me out

  • Narayan

    Thanks for the tips. I’m not someone who’s ever really looked into techniques besides the basic stroke so this was definitely a new experience. The sensation and amount at the end was somewhat bigger too. I still need to work on keeping the lower area fully relaxed to get the most build up and pleasure like you say. It took well over an hour to reach the end but I feel like I could have gone longer if I didn’t tense up/squeeze those muscles here and there as that seems to cause faster ejaculation.

  • Harmon

    In none of the comments is precum discussed. It seems that is a key ingredient to success – or lack thereof – for the cut guys….

    I also don’t know how you can describe this technique as being a new way to ejaculation. Too many of these guys don’t know the difference. The objective here is NOT emission – it’s the fullbody-jarring of an orgasm. Forget about squirting or waterfalls of whatever and focus on the experience.

    One way to do that is to rub or touch ONLY the urethral opening with your index finger. But you can only do this if you produce precum. Similar to the Frenulum technique, do this and if you do it right, you will NEVER have an emission. The method can actually PREVENT you from an emission, but you will have fullbody orgasms as much as you can stand for as long as you can stand. You will feel like you’re going to pee or cum, but you will not be able to do either one no matter how much you want to. I’ve gone for as long as 4 hours. I quit after 4 hours because I was exhausted – not because I ejaculated and was tired. I’ve done it alone, and with 2 different female partners. One of the female partners said she already knew about the technique as the only way to make a guy happy with a handjob (of sorts), but that kept her hand and face clean (LOL).

    Try it…….or at least quit thinking these techniques are all replacements for pounding your penis with your fist as fast as you can. They are NOT replacements for just having an ejaculation. These move you to a higher level than that of a great ape.

  • Giancarlo

    I saw this method a couple of years ago on a site where guys post personal vids. What I do is to not actually rub the frenum but to put a finger on it right at the “v” on the head where the frenum is attached and stretch it without actually rubbing it. I couldn’t believe that I had 3 orgasms and huge shots over about30 or 40 seconds. Now, I’ve begun to rub the frenum actually with my skin covering the whole head and just sticking my finger into the foreskin. I tried this on a dude from my gym that has the thickest foreskin and broadest frenum that I’ve ever seen and just kept rubbing his frenum right at the head with the tip of my tongue without moving my head at all and told him that If I do something that he really likes to tell me to keep it up. After about 10 minutes he was like WTF! He had three massive cum shots over that period and the head flared out like he said it felt like it was gonna expload. The frenum / frenulum is the best part of the uncut dick.

  • brent

    I am to achieve to most.amazing powerful orgasm from.my.wife rubbing my.frenulum. it takes a little longer but all she.does is rub it with just one finger and it is awesome. I prefer it over anything else. I shoot loads and loads of cum.

  • Mystery Dude

    I had huge amount of cum come out, but I didn’t have much of a strong orgasm. I don’t know if I was hitting the fernulum right, or I numbed my penis out because I did #2 twice this week.

    Do I need to slow down in order to feel the full sensation?

  • Dylan

    Hello, this method was recently brought to my attention and I would really like to achieve it. I’ve tried one or two times every day for the past four days each time with the same result. It’ll begin rather boringly but after some time I’ll get hit by some small waves of pleasure at rather infrequent intervals, after going for a bit longer, the waves will start to become rather intense and a bit more often, but then my penis, which has been going back and forth between flaccid and erect, will get very hard only to go flaccid again and for all of the waves to stop. I don’t really understand what I’m doing wrong.

    P.S. I’ve tried with both a vibrator and my fingers.

    P.P.S. I am circumcised and it appears that I don’t have much of a frenulum but there is a little bit there at the bottom of the head.

  • Sean

    Hi Dylan! There are probably more questions about this technique than any other. It can be elusive but oh so rewarding! A couple things as reminders and a couple to think about. First, don’t use lube and you’re not rubbing, but only moving the skin around with one or two fingers. Second, it’s really important to focus on relaxing all of your pelvic floor muscles, anus, at the base of your penis. Focus there. You will have to relax them over and over again. Focus on full body sensations, not just your penis. Ditch the vibe. More is not better. In fact, less is often better. Try lightening up your touch to gentle. An erection is irrelevant. It does come and go. You can be totally flaccid then a raging hard-on. It means very little. If you can enjoy watching all these interesting things happening and enjoy the subtle sensation during what you call the boring phase, you’re well on your way. If so, you’ve achieved a new level of masturbation!!

  • Other Dylan

    Are you supposed o rub the bottom of your head, or the bit slightly below that (on the underside of the shaft)? I’ve been going for an hour now and it only slightly feels like anything…

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