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Most Intense Male Masturbation Technique #3 — Tickling the Frenulum

For this intense male masturbation technique, you need plenty of time. It can take a half-hour or more. Get undressed and really comfortable. For this technique we use no lube at all. Just one or two fingers. Lay back, close your eyes and relax everything including your anal, kegel and muscles at the base of your penis. Allow yourself to become erect.

Tickling the Frenulum

Once you have a good strong erection, you’ll begin the technique and not stop for anything. Hold your erect penis lightly between a couple fingers of one hand. With the other hand, use one or two fingers to simply move around your frenulum — the V-spot on the bottom side of your penis toward the head if you’re circumcised. If you’re not, you’ll do the same thing but through the foreskin. Don’t rub, just hold your finger on the spot and move it around and around and around.

You won’t notice much at first. Be patient and keep it going. Stay relaxed. Relax your muscles around your penis and don’t squeeze. Eventually, you’ll start to notice some pretty strong urges, the main one being to just grab your penis and pump. Resist. Keep moving your finger around. Stay relaxed, and don’t squeeze those muscles.

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Soon, you’ll feel an ejaculation coming on. It will ebb and flow for awhile and you’ll wonder if it ever will come and you’ll want to just grab hold and let it rip. Don’t. Keep moving your finger around and wait for what happens next.

Once you’ve felt the ebb and flow a few frustrating times, you’ll then feel the rush of semen flowing through every tube, pipe and hose in your abdomen and groin. Don’t squeeze, don’t stop or let up on the movement of your finger. Keep going. Your ejaculate won’t squirt like it usually does when you come, it will gush like a water fall. That’s right, you will gush massive amounts of semen and feel every drop of it coursing through your groin, and penis.

Don’t stop moving that finger even though you’re gushing semen. You’ll go absolutely nuts, but keep going until your body and penis goes totally limp. Then fall asleep. You’ll need it.

184 comments to Most Intense Male Masturbation Technique #3 — Tickling the Frenulum

  • dave

    thats exactly how mine came out. just dribbled & dribbled & oozzed, & felt incredible & lasted for about ONE Minute! incredible amount! Cannot wait to have another session at it tonite, or Sooner!

  • John smith

    I was trying this and I don’t know how you guys stay erect for that long. I eventually just get soft. Even when I watch porn and try it. And in only 18. Some tips would be much appreciated.

  • Sean

    Hey! Thanks for your note. First, skip the porn here as it’s a total distraction. You really want to notice all the sensations of your body. Second, it’s absolutely fine if your penis gets soft. You can absolutely expect your penis to get hard, soft, hard, soft. This is just as pleasant with a soft penis! The whole point is to let your body do what it wants to do. Enjoy!

  • DJ

    Still experimenting with the hand held massager-waited about two weeks between sessions. The massager has optional snap on heads-tried one that is foam. Incredible sensations on the frenululm-will be my “go to” toy in the future. Can’t wait to do it again.

  • Nick

    This really is an amazing technique. When you fully relax you can feel the onset of the point of no return much harder, if that makes sense. When you actually trigger your orgasm you can feel the fluids moving and if you’re relaxed enough you can feel your prostate begin to harden and then contract rhythmically with the muscles at the base of your penis. The contractions are much harder when you use this technique. The onset of orgasm you feel like your melting inside.

  • Estelle

    I’d like to try this technique on my partner who is aged 65. Getting a “good strong erection” without rubbing beforehand could be tricky, but if I understood correctly, this would not be the right way to kick off the proceedings… In this case, should I start the frenulum stimulation from totally limp, and hope that the sensations will provoke the necessary erection – which you say will subsequently wax and wane? Thanks for your help!

  • Sean

    Erection isn’t all that critical — relaxation is. Help your partner relax and enjoy the nuance of the experience rather than focusing on an outcome. Yes, you have the idea!

  • Steven forrest

    This is a great technique. I told a buddy about this technique after reading the comments about it and we both wanted to put this to the test. So we did a experiment using this technique to see if the comments were true.
    Both guys lay on floor to masturbate.
    Ages 24 and 25
    Penis size : 5.5 length, 4.5 girth and 6.5 length, 5.1 girth
    24 y/o took 15 min 29 seconds to cum. Lots of precum , penis head turned very bright red right before cumming and cum dripped from penis like waterfall and moaned and moved legs.

    25 y/o took 17 min 13 seconds to cum, also had lots a precum, struggled,not to stroke, did not stroke, penis head turned red , reports felt like cum rushed out so quickly that he moans loudly and pushed legs straight out. Cum went six inches in stomach.

  • Cody

    This technique takes a lot of relaxation and concentration. Any interruption and I was back to square one. However, it was one amazing orgasm. I tried it twice tonight and the second time went in a circular pattern. I loved the swirling sensation thru my balls and ebb and flow of my semen working its way up to the top. My penis jumped and quivered as a orgasmed. I kept going, the feeling was so intense.

  • jaffery iqbal

    Can a Muslim do it?

  • Sean

    All you need is a penis!

  • Bob

    I’ve tried this but haven’t gotten the hang of it yet perhaps I’m not relaxed enough any more suggestions would really help

  • Sean

    Hey Bob! Definitely, relaxation is a big part of this technique and any sexual play. Stress or tension kills it. Try slowing your breathing — filling your lungs slowly on the inhale and counting out seven on the exhale. Another way to relax better is to envision each pelvic muscle and consciously relax them one by one. Finally, chill; forget any expected outcome and enjoy the experience. You’ll be surprised at what you learn about yourself.

  • Rob

    About a month ago I simply started to lay back on the bed and feel different parts of my penis. it’s really amazing how you discover how sensitive certain parts are and the ones that are not. I didn’t use Lube or anything just some powder and did not masturbate to ejaculation. Eventually I did but I discovered things about sensitivity in different parts of that area that I haven’t known about before. I’m a single straight guy with kids who are grown so I now have the time to explore. I think everyone needs to do this.

  • Rob P.

    This is amazing. I am 55 years old widowed and was obviously old school. This is the first time I’ve ever tried a light touch and the pleasure just builds up. Even if you don’t orgasm I have experience harder erection using just this simple dry method. I don’t know who wrote this or how they discovered it butt he is brilliant.

  • Rob Peters

    this is an amazing technique I am a 55 year old widower and obviously I’m old school when it comes to masturbation. it is amazing how light touching and dryness only add to the sensitivity. Even if you don’t orgasm it’s still is the most pleasurable experience. I don’t know who authored this but he is brilliant.

  • DJ

    Been on vacation with the family for a month-no alone time at all. Heading home in a few days-can’t wait for the explosion & stress relief.
    Think this the longest time between sessions in my life. Going to be fun?

  • DJ

    I am 69 & have used this technique for a while-gets better every time !

  • DJ

    Think I finally figured this out. You come into this world alone & you leave the same way. In between you are responsible for your own happiness. Got laid 6-8 times this year-too much drama & emotion. Like fucking a bowl of jello. Will continue to explore my own body & sexuality by masturbating when I can.

  • Shooter

    I came across this site and technique a few days ago. This morning I had the house to myself for a while. I took a nice shower, got some lube, and laid down on the bed and got comfortable. After I laid there for a little while and was feeling relaxed I started massaging and after about an hour I reached climax. Let me just say WOW!!!! One of the most amazing masturbation experiences I’ve ever had. I’ll definitely be doing this again and trying the other techniques very soon.

  • rfam

    I’ve tried this a few times now. It feels really great but I am unable to orgasm from it. After around 45 mins I seem to lose sensation in that area. Any advice?

  • Sean

    A light touch is sometimes more enjoyable and doesn’t tire the nerve endings as quickly. Short breaks to allow nerves to revive also can result in really enjoyable sensations once beginning stimulation again.

  • Sometimes this works really well. I need to be relaxed and not in a hurry. I cannot cum just by frenulum stimulation but it takes me pretty close.

  • Masturbator

    I masturbate like this since I was 17 now Im 23

  • john

    so i keep getting really close but then something just throws me off mentally and i don’t get release and it seems to kill the mood, are there any tips people could offer to help me keep my mind on the task at hand?

  • Sean

    Sometimes it’s better to focus on what’s happening in your body right now rather than focus on some sort of outcome. This is sort of a technique that has some edging qualities. Though the outcome is fantastic, it’s better experienced when you don’t focus on the goal.

  • john

    tried to do this a few more times, i notice that while i keep those 3 muscles relaxed others seem to insensitively tense up, but when i relax them as well it kills the mood, should i let them tense up or keep relaxing them?

  • Sean

    Relaxing is always better. If you get frustrated and tense up, maybe best to take a break and try later.

  • Gerry Kuhl

    What happens if you are doing a sensual massage exchange, and have another man massaging the frenulum?

  • Sean

    Hey! Great question. The experience is no different, really, when experienced with a partner. Still focus on relaxation and the nuance of what you feel. Give your partner very clear feedback, though. Don’t leave them in the dark as to what you’re experiencing. Should be fun!

  • TonySnow

    Thanks Man. Helped A alot. I Just Did It Actually. It Took Away Some of My Stress And It Felt Good. I’m glad I Found This

  • I am 68 and my virility is completely gone, has been for about a year. Can someone in my situation experience this? For sometime it has been that the only I could ejaculate at all and feel some sensation was if someone was giving me head. I would do just about anything to have some sexual experience once and a while. It has been an awful long time since that has happened and I am feeling kind of desperate. Please help me!!

  • Ken

    That’s amazing Cody. Do u use 1 or 2 fingers to circle around the head?


    For years I’ve tried to use this technique to orgasm ever since coming across this on Jackinworld.com under ‘Tiny One-Fingered Circle.’ For YEARS I have attempted and have received great pleasure from it but have never been able to orgasm. I have gone nearly 2 hours straight sometimes but either my arm gets sore from the movement, my pre-cum causes me to lose my grip or I simply lose the spot and am unable to keep the pleasure building. I even thought that my circumcision must have removed too many of the nerves from the frenulum and I just was not capable of orgasming from this technique. Even after finding this post about it 2 years ago, I still had no luck but kept it bookmarked in the hopes that someone would mention something to be able to help me finally achieve orgasm using this technique.

    Well, I am happy to write that I finally got to orgasm from the technique several months ago and have been using it semi-regularly to keep it from becoming dull.

    The secret for me finally achieving orgasm with this technique, and something I hope will help others with getting there by reading this, was: stable contact, rate and repetition.

    When I finally did it, I laid out completely nude in bed. After years of just using my non-dominant hand to rub, I went dominant hand ONLY, placing my index finger on the frenulum, my middle finger directly below my index and my thumb resting on the opposite side underneath the corona to keep it aloft; allowing my non-dominant hand to be free for nipple play and my penis to have as little contact with my body, which allowed the sensations to be somewhat magnified.

    For my motion, I moved my two fingers up-and-down with enough pressure to move the skin up and down along my shaft (not rubbing the skin, MOVING it) at a decently rapid pace, about 3 full up-and-down motions per second. My thumb keeping my penis as stable as possible during the motion.

    By bucking all of the other notions I read from a myriad of sources, it allowed me to focus more on the consistent pleasure. Previously, using one finger of my non-dominant hand resulted in a large amount of pre-cum to ooze over my frenulum, losing my grip and causing me to towel off and lose time and prevented my consistent pleasure from building. Also, one finger and a circular motion would also allow my fingertip to wander away from the most sensitive spot more often than not and not keep up enough of a consistent pace.

    I keep talking about consistent pleasure because the ultimate draw of this technique is to literally let the penis orgasm with as little manual effort and tactile presence as possible. As long as the motion and pressure is consistent, the pleasure should build and the orgasm should happen by itself.

    By doing all of this, I was finally able to orgasm. And knowing that it IS possible, allowed me to adjust and experiment using the non-dominant hand to also produce orgasms on occasion as well as use two-fingers in a circular motion.

    Sorry for the long post but hope this helps!

    TL;DR: try dominant hand, index and middle fingers on and below the frenulum, move the skin up and down at about 3 up-and-down motions per second.

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