For this intense male masturbation technique, you need plenty of time. It can take a half-hour or more. Get undressed and really comfortable. For this technique we use no lube at all. Just one or two fingers. Lay back, close your eyes and relax everything including your anal, kegel and muscles at the base of your penis. Allow yourself to become erect.
Once you have a good strong erection, you’ll begin the technique and not stop for anything. Hold your erect penis lightly between a couple fingers of one hand. With the other hand, use one or two fingers to simply move around your frenulum — the V-spot on the bottom side of your penis toward the head if you’re circumcised. If you’re not, you’ll do the same thing but through the foreskin. Don’t rub, just hold your finger on the spot and move it around and around and around.
You won’t notice much at first. Be patient and keep it going. Stay relaxed. Relax your muscles around your penis and don’t squeeze. Eventually, you’ll start to notice some pretty strong urges, the main one being to just grab your penis and pump. Resist. Keep moving your finger around. Stay relaxed, and don’t squeeze those muscles.
Soon, you’ll feel an ejaculation coming on. It will ebb and flow for awhile and you’ll wonder if it ever will come and you’ll want to just grab hold and let it rip. Don’t. Keep moving your finger around and wait for what happens next.
Once you’ve felt the ebb and flow a few frustrating times, you’ll then feel the rush of semen flowing through every tube, pipe and hose in your abdomen and groin. Don’t squeeze, don’t stop or let up on the movement of your finger. Keep going. Your ejaculate won’t squirt like it usually does when you come, it will gush like a water fall. That’s right, you will gush massive amounts of semen and feel every drop of it coursing through your groin, and penis.
Don’t stop moving that finger even though you’re gushing semen. You’ll go absolutely nuts, but keep going until your body and penis goes totally limp. Then fall asleep. You’ll need it.
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Wow! This really works. It takes alot of practice but the results are amazing. I just lay down and use one finger and swirl it around and around the tip of my frenulum and after a while it becomes intensely pleasurable. The sensations are different from a normal wank, you can better feel the contractions in your penis and they are stronger too. The contractions are involuntary and feel amazing. Drops of precum will flow out for a slight lubrication.The orgasm is tough to get to, but this only makes it so much stronger. Orgasm is not something you dread as the end of your pleasure when masturbating this way, it is your goal and making it to orgasm gives a sense of accomplishment. The orgasm is less of an ejaculatory one and again it feels totally different than a typical wank orgasm. The orgasm is long and feels AMAZING. It is the most pleasuravle feeling Ive ever felt. I cant describe it only as saying its different. Oh and about not shooting cum? Yeah right! Your cum will burst out like a cannon in huge quantities and then it will gush and that also feels amazing. Another great thing is how this orgasm ENERGIZES you instead of putting you to sleep. Every guy must do this.
Thanks, John! Great comment. I think what’s cool about this way of masturbating is that it really defines the difference between ejaculation and orgasm. You really notice the defining line.
Oh-my-god. It took my about 20-25 mins to finish, but when you do, you will be glad you spend the time. At first the intensity began real strong, then it would back off. This happened three or four times before every cell in my body was encased in pure pleasure.
I highly recommend this. And its well worth it if you follow the instruction above. You won’t regret it.
Will these 3 techniques work for those of us who no longer have a prostate?
Without a prostate, there is definitely an issue of no semen. However, there’s no loss in experimentation. Try them all and see, and let us know. There are others who want to know about your experience.
Damn, it was even better than the first time i ever came! I’ve never usually had very much semen, but this time i practically needed a towel to clean it up.
Wow this is good! Why do we not know about this before now?? How did you find this out?
I also use it to achieve my erection – amazingly quickly from flaccid, and not even thinking of sex. Nice amount of pre-cum. My erection seems so strong and my penis looks and feels huge. While fingering the frenulum, with my other hand I push my penis down at the base. I find that this makes my penis poke forward and makes the erection feel very strong in the prominent glistening head, stretches the frenulum, emphasises the head ridge and defines the V underneath, and makes it all so intensely sensitive as it is stroked and fingered. Great for edging.
Very erotic for mutual masturbation: the penis with its bulging head is being pushed forward to your partner; so visual, so exposed and presenting with just a rubbing finger underneath. Also wonderful position for oral sex. (I realise now why tongue flicking of the frenulum is so pleasurable.) Love kneeling between masturbating partners open legs, and masturbating with this technique and eventually ejaculating onto partner. OMG!
Thanks for this beautiful sex-act! Any more?
I’ve been doing this for a while. I use a smalled knobbed massager on a low vibration setting on my frenulum and experience an orgasm within minutes. If I hold back and stop myself from ejaculating straight away, it feels like one continuous orgasm…and once I do ejaculate, it comes out in streams to the point where I feel completely drained. if you don’t have a massager, try an electric toothbrush.
Man… this is a really good technique and I was super skeptical about it. I have jerked off about every way possible and I figured this method wouldn’t work. I always use my hand to stroke it out and squeeze the muscles under my balls, which typically makes my cock harder and gets the precum flowing. Tonight I decided to use the above technique and I followed the directions EXACTLY as they were written. I held my cock lightly toward the base with two fingers and allowed two fingers to gently move around the frenulum. At first I was sitting on a chair, but in order to get more comfortable I decided to lie down on my bed and relax. I will admit, it was difficult to concentrate and stay focused on the pleasurable sensation (usually I’m watching porn and stroking my cock with lube) but I just took deep breaths and continued gently moving one to two fingers around the frenulum. I was getting strong urges and wanted to squeeze those muscles so badly, but I held off and just let my body drift into pleasure mode. It took about 20-25 minutes of this continuously and I was going limp, then getting hard again as soon as I relaxed and let it happen. After 4 or 5 rounds of getting hard then limp I started dripping a small amount of precum, which I used to coat my fingers that were gently massaging/tickling the frenulum. This made my dick harder and gave me even stronger urges to squeeze, but I continued resisting and focused on breathing deeply, letting the tingling, sexual urge in my groin intensify. I continued this for another 5-10 minutes until my cock started getting extremely hard and twitching on its own, without the aid of my PC muscles, which were still relaxed and now almost aching with pleasure. The intense waves and a feeling of cum building up flowed through my balls, my thighs, even my stomach. By this time my cock was now drooling precum all over my stomach… at first just one stream leaked out and remained dangling from my cockhead to my stomach. Next, the feelings of pleasure intensified and my cock started drooling gobs of precum and the thick prostate fluid spilled onto my stomach. I kept gently massaging the frenulum and breathing harder now. By this time I was going crazy and the feeling of wanting to orgasm were extremely intense. My cock was jumping all around on its own and I could see the hole opened up as it stood at attention, ready to burst. The veins were popping out of my shaft and the entire thing was pulsating. I breathed heavier and let the tingling overwhelm my groin, which now caused my cock to spit cum like I had been deep in a wet pussy for over an hour. The hot cum covered my stomach and chest, as my dick continued to jump and dance around uncontrollably. After 8 or so spurts of hot cum my cock finally stopped gushing and collapsed onto my stomach, but continued jumping up to full attention and going back down for another 30 seconds or so. The feeling was incredible and almost brought me back to the first time I felt my cock explode. For a self-proclaimed jerk off expert, this technique blew my mind and I felt like it opened up doors for future sessions of intense pleasure beyond anything I’ve experienced before. Thanks orgasmic guy!!!
Wow. I just tried this and it was crazy. It did take 15-20 minutes but it was SO worth it. Alittle lube while you rub your fingers up and down right below the head is a good touch. Gotta try it
Hi, this sounds amazing. Is this something I could try with my husband, me doing the finger touching for him as he relaxes? Would me playfully tying his hands together so he could not stop me add to his excitement?
Sure you could. It works very well with couples. The relaxation is the same. It still takes a long time, so be patient. As far as the bondage part, you’d need to ask him if he would like it.
Sean, Thanks for your reply. I was thinking this might be a fun and different way to spice things up for us and I would love to try a new way to relax him. I don’t think he has ever masturbated in this way so I am not sure if he would enjoy the time it seems to take to get there, thus my pondering about how best to approach this. Great web site!
Thanks, Sarah, for your comments. Definitely, new spots and new approaches are fun. Men are just like women in this respect. Different vaginal spots arouse differently, and likewise different areas on a guy’s penis arouse differently. Regarding a long time arousing, the story is the same. A slow and gradual buildup is something few guys are accustomed to, but once experienced, you’ll find long slow sex together something you’ll want to do more often.
I started using this technique before I even read any article on it. It feels really good. I’m going to do this before I go to bed tonight.
I came beyond my head and in loads. better than prostate massage. my wife also does it for me sometimes…even she gets turned on…this is the best orgasm hands down…[] i’m so horny now…
All I can say is WOW. This actually worked. It took me a bit longer than expected because I was doing it wrong at first (rubbing, not rotating). But I decided to keep at it once I felt that first orgasmic feeling. It was so different, it felt like my cock was about to explode, but then it would die down and I would just keep rotating. After about 15-20 minutes I finally came. I have never seen so much cum in my life, it just kept pouring out. The best masturbAtion technique I have ever tried. Thank you so much for this awesome trick!
Wow, thanks for this. It took me around half an hour. Make sure you don’t rub but just apply pressure and go around.
This was probably the best solo fun I’ve had like this.
Most intense masturbation technique tickling the frenulum, at my age 77 I thought I was past experiencing an intense orgasm but I am happy to report that my frenulum loved it and made lots of pre-cum before finally reaching an intense orgasm with a lot of cum which I had not had since I was a teenager. I had to resist the temptation to jerk off with the build up being so prolonged about half an hour and certainly intense.
Thanks for this you have made an old guy very happy.
That was the BEST orgasm ive had so far! took me around 40 mins,but it was worth it. thanx a lot,man! i wonder where you get these awesome ideas from. o.O
Wow. I can confirm that this works.
whoah! this feels like all my manhood is oozing and squirting up like a juicy boy! love the sensation! rocks my body and mind! makes me feel more in touch with my male body and the all the semen i can juice up! feels more of a man with an amazing penis and cum.
I came all over my face and couldn’t be so quiet as i needed to be. It was fucking awesome, OMG.
my toes hurt after this, thought i wud never stand again lol
Hey guys, was wandering… Do you need porn for this?
Hey guys me again I could really use some help. I really really want to feel this but i dont know what im doing wrong. Here’s what I do: I take off all of my clothes, I put a big soft blanket over my bed and then I lie down with a pillow behind my head, I rub my shaft like normal untill i get hard. Then I use my thumb and index to make a circle around the base of my shaft. after that I take my index and middle finger of my right hand and rub just beneath the head of my penis on the *back* side(where the skin is really soft.)What happened was I stayed hard for 5 minutes, then i went limp, then really hard, and then limp again. I started feeling my balls getting really really hot and the muscles below them. I got hard one more time, thinking I was getting close i kept it up. but then I just went limp and only felt the hot feeling nothing more, I did this for 20 minutes and nothing happened. Please help guys I would really appriciate the help.
Sorry for posting over and over but also: I hadn’t drank a lot of water today… and ate soups and pretzels. The room I tried to do it in was at about 58′F and I was naked so it was kinda cold. I had peed at least a minute before i started. And I have to take medicine as follows: Hyrdocodone(acetaminophen) 7.5/350MG, Gapepentin 300MG, and a bile binder to control acid reflux. Any help would be greatly appreciated
You never need porn to masturbate. You don’t need anything. Though, porn can be a very fun addition. My advice is to learn to focus on your own body and your feelings. Avoid distractions. Seek depth.
Hey Tyler. I’m replying to both of your last comments. You need to be comfortable to appreciate the nuances of your sexual feelings, so yes, being warm helps.
There are likely two issues that give guys a little grief. The first is their touch. Keep it simple, use no lube, relax *all* of your muscles including those around your penis and anus. Then just move that little V-bit of skin back and below the head of your penis around in tiny circles. That’s all. If you lose your erection for a little bit, that’s OK. Just keep at it. Keep it simple.
Second issue is patience. Focus on what you’re doing and feeling, not on rushing to an ejaculation. It takes time. It can certainly take more than 20 minutes. Your body goes through a whole bunch of fascinating sensations, urges and feelings through this process. You want to cum and it seems elusive. You’re so cranked that you want to grab your cock and pump, but you don’t because you just want to experience this ebb and flow of sometimes very subtle sexual energy. You continue focus and refocus on relaxing those tiny muscles around your penis and anus. Enjoy the journey!
You know what happens next. You read the post.
And, if it doesn’t work today, try again tomorrow. Relax. No big deal. Thanks for writing, Tyler. My best to your personal growth!!
Thanks so much man
I’ll try again after super bowl haha. Thanks so much for the help, I’ll let you know how it goes
Goddamnit.
First things first, I love this site and the 3 techniques, though I problems doing any of them. I worked my hardest at perfecting #3 but failed miserable!!!I grabbed my penis with my left hand, and stroked my frenelum (v area?) with my right hand index figure. It took a long time to notice anything, but after a while my started to ache… It didn’t hurt but I felt these orgasmic like tremors affecting each part of my body. It was cool, but the process took to long. I wasn’t sure what I was supposed to do then since I had forgotten if I was allowed to look at external porn online or remain in position. At the 1:30h mark I couldn’t wait anymore so I decided to use porn to speed things up. It did, I could see feel my penis increasing in size, I couldn’t contain my excitement for the ensuing explosion. But then it happened, I was rotating my fingers when my penis ejaculated, (like a volcano since I was lying down) but it lasted for a very short while, and I barely felt anything.
All that work for nothing heh, there must have been something I did wrong. I used spit for lubricant to rub the frenelum so maybe that was it?
Hey Andy, Everyone’s experience is different. My personal policy is “try everything twice.” Doesn’t matter what it is. My body, my mind, my mood, my focus might be different next time. And, who knows? To one guy what’s mind blowing, to another might be benign. The main thing is don’t let technique get in the way of experience. Sex is a journey, not a job.
OMFG, I had the best orgasm of my life! It went on for roughly 20 seconds. It was so powerful and intense I thought I was going to die!
I saw stars it was so good and I would recommend that you relax and take time out for this one because its not something that you can do in 30 seconds.
This Technique gets a 5 star rating from me!!
I am off to do it again it was so good, Wow!! Thank you orgasmicguy
I tried this, I was doing what this website said to do for about 40 mins, It felt warm for a little bit but then went away. And my penis started to hurt… What was I doing wrong? Any ideas how to make it not painful?
Hi Ed. If ever you feel pain, and don’t like it, stop. Read some of the other comments — every guy has different experiences with this and other techniques. Sex is all about experimentation and your own unique pleasure. Adjust your technique, notice your sensation and find what works for you. Let us know what you discover.
ummm,where’s the v-part of the frenelum?is it where the frenulum meets the head or just the whole frenulum breve?*confused*
Hey Matt! Yes, the V part of the frenulum is the small notch-like area just beneath the head of the penis. This is where you’d stay and stimulate. Nowhere else.
Thanks for writing!
I am 26 and my bf is 21 and we were reading this stuff and he said he wanted to try this on me. So I let him take control. He slowly stripped me and then he tied my arms and legs and that was so erotic and he teased and sucked my nipples and got me really excited. He gave me an enormous erection and he began to slowly tease my frenulum. Actually, he teased w/o lube at first and then added a great lube we buy and the pleasure was beyond desription. He had me crying and writhing like a wimp and he just did not stop. I mean he must have teased me like that for almost 20 minutes. Like you said, I wanted to cum so bad but he was in total control. I was helpless. He also knew how to talk to really excite me more. He likes to tease me because my nipples get so hard during sex and because I have a big bush and stuff like that. And he kept telling me to take it like a man which really is hot to me and then all of a sudden, I couldn’t take the pleasure any more and I knew I was gunna cum and my boner was absolutley gushing jit just like you said. My bf said I had never squirted so much sperm before and it was by far the longest and MOST intense orgasm of my life. I will confess right here–he had me screaming like a sissy when I had my orgasm. I was incredible.
I have successfully done this now about 3 times and it is the best-feeling orgasm ever! Because it takes so long to achieve, I only attempt it when I have the extra time, but it is so worth it! After orgasm using this technique I can stay hard and actually keep stroking it and have another orgasm, though not as strong, within a few minutes. I’m glad I found this article because I used this technique before, but never used it all the way to the end….I never thought that the ending would be different than a normal wank, but it is. The contractions are so strong and the emotional feelings called forth are also very nice.